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9th September 2014

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6th September 2014

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THE SECRET LIFE OF A SATANIST — EXPANDED EDITION →

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The Secret Life Of a Satanist

The Authorized Biography of Anton Szandor LaVey

By Blanche Barton

An insider’s view of the iconoclastic man who founded the Church of Satan and wrote The Satanic Bible.

After the original publication of this biography in 1990, Anton…

6th September 2014

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So insanely hot!!!

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5th September 2014

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5th September 2014

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How good is a MMMF foursome for a relationship?
Mike Hatcher  •  Las Vegas Sex & Relationships Examiner













March 6, 2014


Wives are getting hotter, husbands are getting exciting and sex is no more a traditional act between two bodies. Modern couples can go to any extent to keep their relationship exciting and happening till the last breath. They are adventurous and full of all kinds of wildest fantasies that couples of previous generations may not even have thought about. If you seriously want to keep your married life exciting and feel the same rush whenever you see your partner, it is important to introduce new elements in your intimate life. By new elements we do not mean sex toys and porn videos. These elements have already become the topic of traditional intimacy. Modern intimacy is all about playing with real people and this is where concepts like a foursome MMMF is introduced. A foursome MMMF signifies four people comprising of three males and one female. For most men, this may not be an ideal way to see their wives lying around with two other strangers in one bed, but for many modern couples this is an ultimate fantasy they would love to explore over and over again. The play can be three men on the woman or bisexual activities thrown into the mix.
Sexual acts like threesome and foursome have been practiced by couples all over the world since the time we humans started exploring the sexual possibilities. Even ancient sex manuals like Kama Sutra have talked beyond traditional concept of intimacy. Today, people do not feel shy being straightforward about their sexual interests. In fact, couples who share their sexual fantasies and desires are likely to enjoy the benefits of a successful married life, than any other monogamous couples. Also, earlier threesomes and foursomes were more popular with men exploring their sexual fantasies with different women at the same time, but today even women are open about their intimate needs, which have made the foursome MMMF quite popular in the recent times. The phrase, “why should boys have all the fun” is getting more serious and personal.
Swinger couples are the ideal example of people getting into such acts. Given the fact that these couples are open, frank and respectful about each other’s need of exploring their sexual adventures, foursome MMMF is quite popular among swinging couples. Also, in a survey it has been found that men really enjoy watching their women having the fun of their lives with 3 men in action at the same time. While some partner’s like to be one of the men in the act, other might only prefer watching their women having the intercourse with completely three strangers.
Why It Is Healthy For Relationships?
A lot of people think that sharing their partners with others is not at a cool idea. It can increase the sexual tension and urge to get intimate with new partners even more than what monogamous feel. The truth is actually totally different. Monogamous couples have similar urge to wind up their sexual desires, the only difference is that swinger couples know about each other’s sexual activities and might even have the control over a certain level. This clearly means that the rate of divorces or separation in swinger couples is pathetically low than monogamous couples. There is no risk of cheating and both the partners can enjoy their life as they want even after being in a wedlock. Needless to say, there’s nothing better than being involved in your partner’s sexual fantasies, rather than seeing him/her taking it out without your knowledge.
If you are considering foursome MMMF, it can be a great gift to give to your wife or partner. This will supposedly be one of the wildest gifts ever given by a husband to his beloved life. Make sure your partner is ready to get into such an affair. Foursome can actually sound like a big step for most women, but with a bit of convincing, anyone will feel tempted to try out this ultimate sexual act. Swinger couples literally have the best of both worlds sexually and relationship wise. After all, taking interest in your partner’s sexual interests and being an integral part of it, is something that can help nourish your relationship from the core. Remember, if you are someone who feels jealous about his/her partner, then a foursome is not your piece of cake. Such kind of sexual acts can only be successfully practiced among people who share a healthy relationship with each other, without any destructive factors like jealousy, insecurity and sadness.

Love the life you live… the Swinger Life!
My Hubby & I were living a very vanilla life, he asked would I ever consider Swinging? I said yes and we haven’t looked back!

Is a MMMF foursome for you?

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How good is a MMMF foursome for a relationship?

Mike Hatcher  •  Las Vegas Sex & Relationships Examiner

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Wives are getting hotter, husbands are getting exciting and sex is no more a traditional act between two bodies. Modern couples can go to any extent to keep their relationship exciting and happening till the last breath. They are adventurous and full of all kinds of wildest fantasies that couples of previous generations may not even have thought about. If you seriously want to keep your married life exciting and feel the same rush whenever you see your partner, it is important to introduce new elements in your intimate life. By new elements we do not mean sex toys and porn videos. These elements have already become the topic of traditional intimacy. Modern intimacy is all about playing with real people and this is where concepts like a foursome MMMF is introduced. A foursome MMMF signifies four people comprising of three males and one female. For most men, this may not be an ideal way to see their wives lying around with two other strangers in one bed, but for many modern couples this is an ultimate fantasy they would love to explore over and over again. The play can be three men on the woman or bisexual activities thrown into the mix.

Sexual acts like threesome and foursome have been practiced by couples all over the world since the time we humans started exploring the sexual possibilities. Even ancient sex manuals like Kama Sutra have talked beyond traditional concept of intimacy. Today, people do not feel shy being straightforward about their sexual interests. In fact, couples who share their sexual fantasies and desires are likely to enjoy the benefits of a successful married life, than any other monogamous couples. Also, earlier threesomes and foursomes were more popular with men exploring their sexual fantasies with different women at the same time, but today even women are open about their intimate needs, which have made the foursome MMMF quite popular in the recent times. The phrase, “why should boys have all the fun” is getting more serious and personal.

Swinger couples are the ideal example of people getting into such acts. Given the fact that these couples are open, frank and respectful about each other’s need of exploring their sexual adventures, foursome MMMF is quite popular among swinging couples. Also, in a survey it has been found that men really enjoy watching their women having the fun of their lives with 3 men in action at the same time. While some partner’s like to be one of the men in the act, other might only prefer watching their women having the intercourse with completely three strangers.

Why It Is Healthy For Relationships?

A lot of people think that sharing their partners with others is not at a cool idea. It can increase the sexual tension and urge to get intimate with new partners even more than what monogamous feel. The truth is actually totally different. Monogamous couples have similar urge to wind up their sexual desires, the only difference is that swinger couples know about each other’s sexual activities and might even have the control over a certain level. This clearly means that the rate of divorces or separation in swinger couples is pathetically low than monogamous couples. There is no risk of cheating and both the partners can enjoy their life as they want even after being in a wedlock. Needless to say, there’s nothing better than being involved in your partner’s sexual fantasies, rather than seeing him/her taking it out without your knowledge.

If you are considering foursome MMMF, it can be a great gift to give to your wife or partner. This will supposedly be one of the wildest gifts ever given by a husband to his beloved life. Make sure your partner is ready to get into such an affair. Foursome can actually sound like a big step for most women, but with a bit of convincing, anyone will feel tempted to try out this ultimate sexual act. Swinger couples literally have the best of both worlds sexually and relationship wise. After all, taking interest in your partner’s sexual interests and being an integral part of it, is something that can help nourish your relationship from the core. Remember, if you are someone who feels jealous about his/her partner, then a foursome is not your piece of cake. Such kind of sexual acts can only be successfully practiced among people who share a healthy relationship with each other, without any destructive factors like jealousy, insecurity and sadness.


Love the life you live… the Swinger Life!



My Hubby & I were living a very vanilla life, he asked would I ever consider Swinging? I said yes and we haven’t looked back!

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Is a MMMF foursome for you?

5th September 2014

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Your wife is an insatiable cock whore….


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Your wife is an insatiable cock whore….

I wouldn’t want her any other way! 😈👅💦😜

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3rd September 2014

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BDSM Roles →

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In the sign-up page for Fetlife there is a section which asks for your “Role”, some of these can be foreign to you, because of this I’ve drawn up short definitions for each. For more details concerning Identity and BDSM roles check this article out. You can also join the…

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20th August 2014

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This unfortunately crossed my desk this morning, and now my pussy is sad.
"[W]ouldn’t you prefer to be that girl who smells and tastes a treat down there?" this incredibly irritating and offensive blog post begins.
Here we go again: women being told their vulvas and vaginas aren’t good enough in their natural state. They have to be scrubbed and waxed and have food products shoved inside them. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.
“How to Make Your Vagina Smell and Taste Delicious,” the post is titled, because of course you have to make it that way because A) it isn’t that way already, and B) you somehow owe it to the world to do that.
All of this pussy shaming is exhausting. It leaves women — even women-loving women — feeling like there’s something wrong with us, that we’re not worthy, that our sexuality hangs in the balance of other people’s approval of our naturally lacking body parts. Argh.
"Wash it!" this blogger begins. "The obvious first step to having fragrant, delicious private bits would be to thoroughly wash down there at least twice a day."
Nope. Your vulva and vagina do not need to be scrubbed clean twice a day. It is not dirty. I repeat: Unless you just ran a marathon, sat in the sun for hours, or rolled naked in the mud, your nether regions are not inherently dirty. The vagina creates a very particular, balanced environment for itself. There’s no need to mess with it.
Language like this adds to the vulvar and vaginal shame that so many women already feel. And, sadly, despite the presence of two vulvas and vaginas, this shaming and self-loathing can still exist in lesbian relationships. Your pussy is perfect. It looks perfect. It smells perfect. And it can cause you to feel perfectly wonderful things. Barring an infection — yeast, bacterial or otherwise — all it needs is some lovely, warm water run over it when you shower. Period.
Yes, as the blogger explains, pussies like fresh air, and they do not like to be sprayed. But, once again, neither she nor anyone else should be dictating your undergarment or laundry-detergent choices. I don’t know what kind of detergent she’s using, but mine has never left a Downy-fresh smell on my pussy. (Note: Don’t put dryer sheets in your vagina.) And my lacy thongs are cotton or have a cotton lining. So I’m all good, thank you.
"Wax it! Sweat cause odors and pubic hair retains sweat. By waxing, the chance of odor caused by sweat is significantly reduced and in my opinion, a waxed vagina is visually more appealing."
The only thing I really want to say to this is, quite simply, “Fuck you.” First of all, you can’t wax a vagina. It has no hair. The vagina is the internal canal.
A vulva, on the other hand, can be waxed, shaved, or plucked, or it can be left in its perfectly lovely, perfectly natural, untouched state. Sometimes I wax my pussy. Sometimes I shave it. Sometimes I leave a trail. Sometimes a triangle. Sometimes nothing at all. It’s my pussy, so I do whatever I want with it.
We have to stop telling women what to do with their pussies. It’s your pussy. I recommend treating it nicely and respectfully. I recommend pleasuring her regularly. I recommend only sharing her when you want and with whom you want and how you want. But, honestly, those are only recommendations. It’s your body. Your choice. And no one, especially not some random blogger, should be telling any woman how she should groom her pussy. Fuck that.
"Wet Wipe it! Using baby wipes after each trip to the toilet can reduce urinary tract/vaginal infections plus they are designed to be soft and gentle on the skin. So keep some baby wipes handy."
Once again, no need, at all. If things get a little messy on your backside, sure, use a wipe if you choose. And always wipe from front to back to keep bacteria from being transferred from you backside to your pussy. But you don’t need wipes. You don’t, and neither does your home’s plumbing system.
"Eat it!" 
Well, yes, I certainly recommend eating pussy. But, sadly, that is not what this dear blogger is recommending.
"Did you know that vegetarians have been proven to have better tasting secretions than meat eaters?!"
I’d love to see that study, if it’s a blind, peer-reviewed, scientific one. Anyone? Anyone? Bueller?
Some argue that eating pineapple and some other sweet fruits can make your pussy taste sweeter, and that some harsher-tasting foods may have the opposite effect. But — and my apologies if this is too graphic or personal for you — my girl must tell me a million times a day how much she loves the taste and smell of my pussy, and I am always saying the exact same thing about hers, and we are two seriously meat-loving girls. So I’m calling bullshit on this too.
"Treat it! Yeast infection is one cause of foul odor. You will need to treat it before you can start tasting and smelling good down there. A cream like Vagisil, which can be bought over-the-counter at pharmacies, can eliminate odor and itchiness."
There’s all kind of confusion going on here. Vagisil is not for yeast infections. If you are itchy and/or have a white discharge, see your doc. It may be yeast, and you may need meds. If it is foul- or fishy-smelling, you may have a bacterial infection, and you should see your doc for meds. Simple as that.
"Dip it! An old wives remedy for healthy vaginas is to dip a clean tampon into plain, unsweetened yoghurt and then insert it into your vagina for an hour. By fighting the unhealthy ones, the healthy bacteria in yoghurt help eliminate any fishy and unpleasant odor. Do remember to wash your vagina thoroughly after removing the tampon." 
Holy shit. No, no, and no. Here’s the thing: Yogurt is food. That means it’s not made for putting in or leaving in your vagina. Even if you use a cucumber as a dildo, which is a perfectly reasonable, it’s a good idea to cover it with a condom. Just because yogurt has live cultures in it does not mean you should leave it in your vagina. Some women say it has a soothing effect if you use it on your vulva, but it’s highly unlikely that it will actually “cure” a yeast infection.
There are some medications designed for that purpose that have been tested to be safe for your vagina. But talk about setting off an imbalance. Bottom line: My sister, Dr. Block, wisely said when I told her about this, “Don’t leave shit in there not designed for that purpose. Besides, how would you ever get it out?” Douching is terrible for you, and anything short of that is going to leave yogurt residue.
"Try these tips for potential improvements in ‘down southern’ hospitality =)" 
Gross. My vagina is not a hotel, and neither is yours. And why are the words “down” and “southern” both in quotation marks?
This is a Singapore-based site, so perhaps there are some cultural issues and some language issues going on throughout. But regardless of culture, pussy pride should reign throughout the lands.
There also seem to be some plagiarism issues (or serious over-borrowing, at the very least), as some of this has been lifted almost word-for-word from a Jezebel piece published about a year earlier.
Here’s the thing: Pussies are not supposed to taste like cupcakes and smell like roses. They are supposed to taste and smell like pussies: sweet, pungent, spicy, delicious, and maybe a little bit like iron before, during, and after your period. But unless there is an underlying health issue, there is nothing wrong with a pussy that tastes, smells, and looks like, well, a pussy.
The pussy shaming and self-loathing has to stop. Men perpetrate it, but women do it to themselves too, and lesbians doing it seems extra-problematic. We’re supposed to be supporting each other and loving each other and pulling each other up, not dragging each other down.
Trust me: Your pussy is perfect. Stop worrying about it. Seriously. If you need something to worry about, how about female genital mutilation, unhygienic toilets, unclean water, a lack of period products to help girls avoid missing school once a month, unequal pay, and anti-LGBT discrimination. Your pussy is doing just fine. Pleasure, rinse, and repeat. That’s all you need to know.


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Realities vs. Myths in vaginal care

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Share the Swinger Life!



My Hubby & I were living a very vanilla life, he asked would I ever consider Swinging? I said yes and we haven’t looked back!

Swing!

Realities vs. Myths in vaginal care

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19th August 2014

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19th August 2014

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19th August 2014

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Reasons for Swinging 
It is generally felt that you can divide swingers into those who participate for recreational and those who participate for utopian reasons. Recreational swingers see swinging as a social activity much like bowling, playing tennis and cards. Utopian swingers have a general philosophy of communitarianism and wish to share not only sex but all other aspects of life with their fellow participants.
At this time there are relatively few scientific data that indicate what long-term effect swinging actually has on marriages. Nevertheless there is a general belief among swingers that swinging has a positive effect upon a marriage. They believe that sexual fidelity is harmful and breeds jealousy and a feeling of ownership between a husband and wife. According to them swinging does away with jealousy and helps each mate see the other as an individual and not as a possession. Another reason for participating in swinging is boredom with marital sex. Swingers feel that it is impossible for one person to satisfy another sexually over an extended period of time. Swinging is seen as a method of adding new excitement to the marriage, perhaps even salvaging it. Most swingers know couples who have tried to salvage a bad marriage by swinging, but they argue that this generally has not been very successful. Most swingers believe that swinging alone cannot save a bad marriage. They do believe that it can strengthen a good marriage.
There may be deeper psychological reasons for swinging. It is believed that men may need to translate early sexual fantasies into reality and that women may be fulfilling social-romantic needs. Some believe that because of the marginality of the new middle class, they seek experiences with others in order to feel they belong. They participate in swinging to develop social ties and to satisfy the need tor sexual fulfillment that is a result of their restrictive middle-class backgrounds. Swinging gives them an opportunity to do both without disrupting their general lifestyle.
All reasons, whether social, psychological, or sociological, are at the present time only speculation. One could easily conclude that the reasons for participating in swinging are as varied as swingers themselves.
Etiquette In Swinging
(Common Sense and Social Courtesy)
The following article was written by Kenn & Lisa P.O. Box 246, Alameda, CA 94501
All of us want to be successful as swingers. It doesn’t matter how often, with whom, where, or in what style we swing. One of the nicest things about our lifestyle is that most of us relate to each other with understanding, thoughtfulness, and common courtesy; just as we ourselves wish to be treated. Think C.S.A.S.C. (Common Sense and Social Courtesy). If you employ the following suggestions or adapt them to your own situation, you should become a welcome participant.
1. BE COURTEOUS
Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden and Silver rules.
2. BE FRIENDLY
Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.
3. RESPOND TO ALL INVITATIONS
RSVP means please reply to the invitation. It does NOT mean reply only if you plan to attend. The most frustrating part of hosting, be it a party, a group or another couple, is people who are discourteous enough not to respond, PERIOD. Good etiquette and good social courtesy DEMAND you respond, by either calling or writing to say yes OR no.
4. NEVER ARRIVE EMPTY HANDED
When you go to someone’s home for a party, ask if there is something you can bring. (it’s amazing how many supplies, other than food are used up at an average party.) If you are not going as a couple, a house- gift is appropriate (and not necessarily wine.)
5. GO PREPARED
Take whatever you personally are going to need with you. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms, etc. If you plan to stay over, sleeping bags or blankets and pillows are necessities.
6. CLEANLINESS
Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO.
7. RESPECT OTHERS’ FEELINGS
Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things.
8. DON’T BE PUSHY
If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say “No, thank you,” do not ask WHY. No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has the right to say “NO” at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.
9. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU
Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
10. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO
One of the basic etiquettes in swinging is the right of anyone to say “No”. Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say “No” to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple “No, thank you”. Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.
11. ALCOHOL OR DRUGS
Most of us do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you “relax”. Over-indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.
12. PRACTICE SAFER SEX
It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, aids, yeast infection, etc., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.
13. CALL TO SAY THANKS
Most people only use the telephone if they are going to go somewhere. Lost seems to the social ambiance of a ‘Thank-You Note’ or phone call to someone whose hospitality you enjoyed. It means a lot to most people, and they will surely remember you when planning their next event. Don’t you like to be thanked?
14. BE GOOD HOSTS
When you have people coming to your home, try to anticipate their needs: put clean sheets on the beds; keep plenty of clean washcloths and towels available. Show your guests through the house so that they will know where the bathrooms, kitchen, and other rooms are located.
15. ANSWERING ADS
All replies to an ad should be answered in two weeks even if it is a No. Remember not all people you write to are interested in you or your partners sexual heroics. A first letter should include a brief description of yourselves, where you saw the ad, your ad number and your social and sexual interests. An SASE should be included with your original reply as many couples receive a large number of replies which can be costly to reply to.
16. ENJOY YOURSELF
Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.
SWINGING at On-Premise Clubs and House Parties…
RELAX and GET ACQUAINTED
When at an on-premise club or swing house party, you are there to have the best of times and to share the uninhibited enjoyment associated with those who have discovered a new dimension in their lifestyles. Once you have become familiar with the surroundings and staff members or host/hostess, try to become as at ease as you would be at any other social gathering. Don’t hesitate to introduce yourselves to other people. You’ll find them eager to welcome you and to help you blend into their circle of sincere camaraderie.
SOME TIPS ON ETIQUETTE
While you are advised to be congenial and outgoing, don’t be “pushy”. Many couples who are new to “swinging” often have unrealistic expectations and are not prepared to handle rejections that may sometimes occur. Freshly showered, perfumed, and neatly dressed people make more contacts. Don’t let your personal physical idiosyncrasies stop you from having a good time. No one is perfect [although it is common for new “swingers” to see others as more attractive or more verbal as themselves]. Don’t let your own mind be your worst enemy. Be prepared to handle rejection but don’t take it personally. It is important to remember that
PERSONAL CHOICE
is the right of every individual and to ‘respect that right’ is only common courtesy. Learn how to accept “no thank you” graciously. Your approach — which should be the same as it would be at any social setting — is a key factor to your acceptance as a desirable partner/friend. There are several variations to “swinging” and it is important that you and your mate decide, in advance, those which you like and dislike. Some couples prefer to be alone, while others prefer to be with other couples. Establish your own ground rules, but please decide on them BEFORE you start “swinging”.
JOIN THE CONVERSATION
Some people will probably “break the ice” by introducing themselves, along with other couples they know. It’s their way of making you feel at home. Feel free to join their conversation and you’ll find that most of them will be happy to answer any questions you may have about the “swinging” lifestyle. Be open and honest. Tell them that you are new to “swinging” and you’ll discover how helpful people can be.
START OFF ON THE RIGHT FOOT
On your first venture into the swinging scene, you may feel somewhat uneasy about seeing your mate with someone else. Some “swingers” want to share swinging with their mate and feel uneasy having their mate leave to another room with someone. Everyone has their own reasons for their feelings and all feelings are real and should be respected. To avoid embarrassment or disillusionment, discuss your inhibitions with your mate beforehand. Both of you may be more comfortable after talking to other couples and learning how they handled their first “swinging” session.
Jealousy In Swinging 
Generally, swingers do not show jealousy on the surface. Most swingers argue that this is because by going to parties together and leaving together, they realize their commitment to each other as a couple. Thus, they do not feel threatened because the other partner has gone into another room to have sexual relations with another individual. One such swinger said, “We both know that each of us have experiences with other people and, yet, we come back to each other because we want to be together” They feel that this gives you a feeling of security that you never had before because you feel and know that the partner is coming back to you even though they have had a sexual relationship with someone else. They feel that this builds up self-confidence and security. For a couple to engage in swinging, they must throw off the belief that having sexual relations outside of marriage is improper; they must break the shackles of the double standard. That is, the wife will be having sexual relations with other males much as the male may have had sexual relations outside the marriage with another partner previously. Swinging for most women changes their view of the world and sexual relations. Many argue that it has made a complete turn-around in their life from the way they viewed the world two or three years before swinging. In attempting to determine what causes some women to go into swinging, I have already noted that many are urged by their husbands and others go into swinging to carry out their fantasies. One such woman I interviewed reported that she finally acquiesced in going to a swinging party saying that she would not participate but would be willing to go and observe, have dinner and a drink or two.
Enjoy the best of life…  the Swinger Life!
My Hubby & I were living a very vanilla life, he asked would I ever consider Swinging? I said yes and we haven’t looked back!

swingingdc:

Reasons for Swinging 

It is generally felt that you can divide swingers into those who participate for recreational and those who participate for utopian reasons. Recreational swingers see swinging as a social activity much like bowling, playing tennis and cards. Utopian swingers have a general philosophy of communitarianism and wish to share not only sex but all other aspects of life with their fellow participants.

At this time there are relatively few scientific data that indicate what long-term effect swinging actually has on marriages. Nevertheless there is a general belief among swingers that swinging has a positive effect upon a marriage. They believe that sexual fidelity is harmful and breeds jealousy and a feeling of ownership between a husband and wife. According to them swinging does away with jealousy and helps each mate see the other as an individual and not as a possession. Another reason for participating in swinging is boredom with marital sex. Swingers feel that it is impossible for one person to satisfy another sexually over an extended period of time. Swinging is seen as a method of adding new excitement to the marriage, perhaps even salvaging it. Most swingers know couples who have tried to salvage a bad marriage by swinging, but they argue that this generally has not been very successful. Most swingers believe that swinging alone cannot save a bad marriage. They do believe that it can strengthen a good marriage.

There may be deeper psychological reasons for swinging. It is believed that men may need to translate early sexual fantasies into reality and that women may be fulfilling social-romantic needs. Some believe that because of the marginality of the new middle class, they seek experiences with others in order to feel they belong. They participate in swinging to develop social ties and to satisfy the need tor sexual fulfillment that is a result of their restrictive middle-class backgrounds. Swinging gives them an opportunity to do both without disrupting their general lifestyle.

All reasons, whether social, psychological, or sociological, are at the present time only speculation. One could easily conclude that the reasons for participating in swinging are as varied as swingers themselves.

Etiquette In Swinging

(Common Sense and Social Courtesy)

The following article was written by Kenn & Lisa P.O. Box 246, Alameda, CA 94501

All of us want to be successful as swingers. It doesn’t matter how often, with whom, where, or in what style we swing. One of the nicest things about our lifestyle is that most of us relate to each other with understanding, thoughtfulness, and common courtesy; just as we ourselves wish to be treated. Think C.S.A.S.C. (Common Sense and Social Courtesy). If you employ the following suggestions or adapt them to your own situation, you should become a welcome participant.

1. BE COURTEOUS

Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. In essence, courtesy is our treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated. Remember the Golden and Silver rules.

2. BE FRIENDLY

Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.

3. RESPOND TO ALL INVITATIONS

RSVP means please reply to the invitation. It does NOT mean reply only if you plan to attend. The most frustrating part of hosting, be it a party, a group or another couple, is people who are discourteous enough not to respond, PERIOD. Good etiquette and good social courtesy DEMAND you respond, by either calling or writing to say yes OR no.

4. NEVER ARRIVE EMPTY HANDED

When you go to someone’s home for a party, ask if there is something you can bring. (it’s amazing how many supplies, other than food are used up at an average party.) If you are not going as a couple, a house- gift is appropriate (and not necessarily wine.)

5. GO PREPARED

Take whatever you personally are going to need with you. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms, etc. If you plan to stay over, sleeping bags or blankets and pillows are necessities.

6. CLEANLINESS

Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO.

7. RESPECT OTHERS’ FEELINGS

Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things.

8. DON’T BE PUSHY

If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say “No, thank you,” do not ask WHY. No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has the right to say “NO” at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.

9. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU

Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.

10. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO

One of the basic etiquettes in swinging is the right of anyone to say “No”. Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say “No” to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple “No, thank you”. Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.

11. ALCOHOL OR DRUGS

Most of us do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you “relax”. Over-indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.

12. PRACTICE SAFER SEX

It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, aids, yeast infection, etc., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.

13. CALL TO SAY THANKS

Most people only use the telephone if they are going to go somewhere. Lost seems to the social ambiance of a ‘Thank-You Note’ or phone call to someone whose hospitality you enjoyed. It means a lot to most people, and they will surely remember you when planning their next event. Don’t you like to be thanked?

14. BE GOOD HOSTS

When you have people coming to your home, try to anticipate their needs: put clean sheets on the beds; keep plenty of clean washcloths and towels available. Show your guests through the house so that they will know where the bathrooms, kitchen, and other rooms are located.

15. ANSWERING ADS

All replies to an ad should be answered in two weeks even if it is a No. Remember not all people you write to are interested in you or your partners sexual heroics. A first letter should include a brief description of yourselves, where you saw the ad, your ad number and your social and sexual interests. An SASE should be included with your original reply as many couples receive a large number of replies which can be costly to reply to.

16. ENJOY YOURSELF

Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.

SWINGING at On-Premise Clubs and House Parties…

RELAX and GET ACQUAINTED

When at an on-premise club or swing house party, you are there to have the best of times and to share the uninhibited enjoyment associated with those who have discovered a new dimension in their lifestyles. Once you have become familiar with the surroundings and staff members or host/hostess, try to become as at ease as you would be at any other social gathering. Don’t hesitate to introduce yourselves to other people. You’ll find them eager to welcome you and to help you blend into their circle of sincere camaraderie.

SOME TIPS ON ETIQUETTE

While you are advised to be congenial and outgoing, don’t be “pushy”. Many couples who are new to “swinging” often have unrealistic expectations and are not prepared to handle rejections that may sometimes occur. Freshly showered, perfumed, and neatly dressed people make more contacts. Don’t let your personal physical idiosyncrasies stop you from having a good time. No one is perfect [although it is common for new “swingers” to see others as more attractive or more verbal as themselves]. Don’t let your own mind be your worst enemy. Be prepared to handle rejection but don’t take it personally. It is important to remember that

PERSONAL CHOICE

is the right of every individual and to ‘respect that right’ is only common courtesy. Learn how to accept “no thank you” graciously. Your approach — which should be the same as it would be at any social setting — is a key factor to your acceptance as a desirable partner/friend. There are several variations to “swinging” and it is important that you and your mate decide, in advance, those which you like and dislike. Some couples prefer to be alone, while others prefer to be with other couples. Establish your own ground rules, but please decide on them BEFORE you start “swinging”.

JOIN THE CONVERSATION

Some people will probably “break the ice” by introducing themselves, along with other couples they know. It’s their way of making you feel at home. Feel free to join their conversation and you’ll find that most of them will be happy to answer any questions you may have about the “swinging” lifestyle. Be open and honest. Tell them that you are new to “swinging” and you’ll discover how helpful people can be.

START OFF ON THE RIGHT FOOT

On your first venture into the swinging scene, you may feel somewhat uneasy about seeing your mate with someone else. Some “swingers” want to share swinging with their mate and feel uneasy having their mate leave to another room with someone. Everyone has their own reasons for their feelings and all feelings are real and should be respected. To avoid embarrassment or disillusionment, discuss your inhibitions with your mate beforehand. Both of you may be more comfortable after talking to other couples and learning how they handled their first “swinging” session.

Jealousy In Swinging 

Generally, swingers do not show jealousy on the surface. Most swingers argue that this is because by going to parties together and leaving together, they realize their commitment to each other as a couple. Thus, they do not feel threatened because the other partner has gone into another room to have sexual relations with another individual. One such swinger said, “We both know that each of us have experiences with other people and, yet, we come back to each other because we want to be together” They feel that this gives you a feeling of security that you never had before because you feel and know that the partner is coming back to you even though they have had a sexual relationship with someone else. They feel that this builds up self-confidence and security. For a couple to engage in swinging, they must throw off the belief that having sexual relations outside of marriage is improper; they must break the shackles of the double standard. That is, the wife will be having sexual relations with other males much as the male may have had sexual relations outside the marriage with another partner previously. Swinging for most women changes their view of the world and sexual relations. Many argue that it has made a complete turn-around in their life from the way they viewed the world two or three years before swinging. In attempting to determine what causes some women to go into swinging, I have already noted that many are urged by their husbands and others go into swinging to carry out their fantasies. One such woman I interviewed reported that she finally acquiesced in going to a swinging party saying that she would not participate but would be willing to go and observe, have dinner and a drink or two.


Enjoy the best of life…  the Swinger Life!



My Hubby & I were living a very vanilla life, he asked would I ever consider Swinging? I said yes and we haven’t looked back!

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